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What you see isn't always correct

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In life you must have come across various situations when your vision has defied you right ? Let's take the simplest case suppose on a road it's written 66, now one person might see it as 99, which is correct in his opinion, the other will argue that it's 66 and not 99. So what to do now ? simple just refer to the surroundings, there will be a clear hint as to which is the correct side.  Let's take another example of water, when you look at it from above, you won't be able to estimate the correct depth. Well at least that can be explained, that light refracts from water, and our eyes can't detect that hence we see a different image.Let's dig in deeper shall we ? When you buy an expensive product, be it anything, your smartphone, computer, vehicle anything. You do as much research about it as possible, you ask your friends, you read reviews, check specifications on various sites. The thing is no matter how much effort you put into knowing the product befo...

Fears

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All of us are afraid of one thing or the other right ? It may be just dark, or spiders, or even something simple like teddy bears ( I know right ? Weird) But yes we have our fears. See, for me I have stage fright, I know i know who doesn't ? But I have an experience from my childhood where I had to deliver a book review on stage, and I stuttered and forgot what i had to say and it was a total mess. So, yeah I was scared both before going on stage and after coming back. See when hundreds of people are looking up to you to say something and you forget what you had to say. It is damn disappointing. I was made fun of, scolded and what not. But later on I realized that I have to do something about it. So I decided to speak up, it was scary again, but this time, as soon as I had the chance I started speaking, out of the blue, anything that came to my mind. So two  things happened 1) I no longer had to memorize what to say 2) I was free to manipulate my speech according to the...

Time Time Time

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Time is a valuable thing, we know that don't we ? But often we end up wasting it, sometimes knowingly and other times unknowingly. Either way, time wasted is life wasted. See our lies are too short to do anything but the thing we love. Now let's take a look at how we waste time Knowingly : 1) Playing games on phone or PC or laptop. I'm not saying this to those people who play for like half an hour or an hour, that much is fine. For those who play more than that,  Guys seriously, stop. There's a whole big wide world waiting for you to explore it. Go out hang out with friends, play real games like football, basketball, cricket. Or you could go for swimming, camping, or a simple stroll in the park or your neighborhood. 2) Watching movies, Now again watching movies a good way of refreshment and relaxation, once in a week or a month is fine. But for those who can't sleep without watching a movie, or who have movie marathons you should look at yourself. Stuck ...

Random tips

Today I realised a few things... Ah no let me rephrase that, I remembered that I had realised a few basic things but had forgotten them. Wanna know ? 1 : Never try to please anyone, no matter how hard you try, if they want they'll find out a flaw and hate you. 2 : it's important to open up to people, but not too much. And of course you have to open up with the right people. 3 : NOT EVERYTHING IN THIS WORLD HAPPENS BECAUSE OF ME. I'M NOT THE CENTRE OF THIS WORLD. 4 : When you're sad there are a few people who may make you feel better. But ultimately it's you who picks yourself up. 5 : Be open to suggestions. 6 : Never follow anyone, learn from them. Don't be a blind follower. Hope this was worth your time. If not, then don't worry whenever you're in a tight spot your mind will know what to do. See you guys have a great time !

Everything can be better

the things that might not look so good or which might even look bad at first sight, can look very good, given you work on them. By work on them I don't mean that you sit on them and work, what I mean to say is you put some effort in making that thing better. there are several examples, that I came across..  First let's start with a simple one, My bedsheet, I had actually gone for a trip, when I returned my bedsheet was changed it was replaced by another one ((Bright lemon yellow coloured)), the thing is, it was put on lousily. So it looked terrible and I wanted to get another one, but then I said to myself, we'll change it tomorrow. But net morning when I woke up, it was even more messed up (( came out from corners, and didn't cover the entire bed)). So I got up cleared the bed, and then put on the bedsheet in a proper way, so that no matter how I slept it won't come off. and then when I looked at my bed, it looked simply better than before. more arranged and I f...

Risks are Worth taking

Hi there busy how are you doing ? I hope you're dealing with your problems .. And doing your best. Keep it up, those storms will end. Well most of you must have heard or read about this.. One fine day, a girl aha a boy "when we know relationships are going to end one day, then why do we love and get committed ?" To this the boy replies " when we know one day we are all going to die, then why do we live ?" Once a wise person told me " never get to close to anyone" and it's true I agree... I mean if they leave we'll be devastated. But sometimes some people are worth it... They are the people you feel necessary. The ones you can confide in tell them what you feel, think, want, dream and hope for. The are the people you trust. Cherish them. Even if it hurts, be with them in their hard times. But also know when to step back. Similarly the are other risks worth taking... We'll talk about that later... For now this is it, but we'll mee...

What matters the most

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What do you think is the most important thing in your life ? What is it that you must do at all costs right now ? Who is the most precious person or people to you ? I'm gonna share my experience on these things here.  I'm a teenager.. who doesn't like to go out... that's because of the lack of appropriate company ((friends)) So I confine myself in my room, and talk to people over internet ((not a very healthy thing to do ? I know)). But I met the most amazing people I've known on the internet. They are my friends, some more than just friends, all of these people and of course you are awesome ! Unique in their own way everyone has their own good qualities. It was around December of 2015, I found my best friend here. She's one of the best people I know. I've had the best time of my life talking to her, and everything was perfectly well... But as I met new people.. talked to more friends... I kind of reduced paying attention to my best friend, as ...

Every experience is Beautiful !

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We all know that everything is made up of atoms and molecules. That matter and energy are the two basic constituents of our universe. But is that it ? are we just a collection of molecules having energy ? Obviously no, there's more there's so much more that we can't even imagine. there's something that makes life so der to us, the ability to live the memories of joy and sorrow, tension and love. Everything is important. You see every experience, be it the one where you learned to ride a bicycle or a heartbreaking one. Every experience adds a bit to our personality. But don't get me wrong we are not made up of only these experiences, a larger part of our personality is what we thought of these experiences, how we learned from them. And that is where a person is distinguished as a wise one or as a fool.   Let me tell you a story of a boy here, It is a very common kind of guy, goes school everyday, has friends, does his studies normally. One day, he sees a girl, who...

The Basement (Part III)

It's been a great experience writing this story ! thank you for all your support ! Haven't read part I ?  Click Here !   And for Part II you can go  Here ! Seeing Sam so positive, Alicia tries to calm down. And says "okay, Did you see my shot ?" But she already knew the answer so she raised the pistol again in order to shoot again. But Sam stopped her "By the look on your face and your confidence, I guess you did pretty good". She had hardly heard this when the phone rang... She looked at Sam, who was holding the phone, looked terrified. They both didn't know what to do. Should they attend the call ? and give away the fact that four of their men are dead ? Would this bring more trouble ?  When Sam doesn't pick up the call, Alicia yells at him " What ? do you think he'll just think that his man fell asleep ? of course He'll be suspicious and will send more men to investigate why these four haven't returned". Sam shocked says...

Gratitude

We all know that thankfulness leads to happiness, yet we are rarely grateful to life and it's experiences, like if something bad happens, we start complaining, instead of that we should be pleased that life has decided to teach us something new. And isn't it strange that.. we treat strangers and even the people we dislike with utmost care and pleasant behaviour, be it due to fear or modesty or just to maintain our image. And on the other hand, the people we really love, how often is it that we treat them with care, give them our full attention and be kind to them ? Anyways I'm not here to complain or compare. I just wanna thank everyone who's been in my life, whether they've hurt me or made me happy, whether they're with me or not. Thank you everyone ! I am who I am today because of you guys ! It's been a great journey and I hope it will get even better in the future ! ((Let me tell you, the blog has crossed over 2,900 views)) So Rest assured you...

The Basement (Part II)

[Everyone who hasn't read the first part here it is :  Part I ] Sam manages to free Alicia, both of them still confused. Sam asks "Should we go looking for her again ?" Alicia (Shocked) says "After all this ?". Sam says "yeah she's our friend, but you've got a point". Both of them fell silent for a minute or two. Sam then says "okay let's try to get out of here" But as soon he tries to move forward, Alicia holds him, says " these guys must have a phone and since they  didn't return, their boss or whoever took Annie should be impatient and will call them"     Astounded at her daring Sam says " okay let's search their pockets", he kneels down and looks for a phone in clothes of the guy who was lying nearest to them. Finds nothing but a Magazine of the pistol he was holding. As he shows it to Alicia she gives a yelp of fear. Why would they need an extra magazine for only two kids ? Did they intend to k...

Little things (continued)

  A few days back I was at a fair, and had to wait at a spot when an old couple came and sat beside me, well as usually I think that old people are pretty cute and experienced, I thought the same this time as well. as I watched this couple realization dawned upon me, these people were talking about the young generation and people at the fair but they were enjoying themselves too, though neither their children nor their grandchildren were with them, they were still happy.(( yeah I know what's so big in that ?)) the big thing Is that it was a really large fair and these people couldn't even walk properly and yet they were so cheerful. moreover his made me want something like this, a partner who would stick to me even if there's no one else. This seemed truly romantic to me.  The second thing is that we youngsters these days are so indulged in our gadgets, phones PCs and studies that we rarely talk to our parents, and trust me talking to them helps. Chances are that o...

Little things

         How many times have we heard that little things in life are the ones that matter the most? We've always heard the example that making money and chasing after our reams are good, but they're quite less important than caring for our family and friends. Here i have some thoughts and experiences like that.            Have you ever sat beside a busy road at night ? simply sitting doing nothing. Some five six days ago, we were all going out for dinner in our car, when we had to stop at a shop and dad went to the shop leaving us alone in the car. That's when i realised how busy that road was, i mean we could see many many cars incoming with those white lights and almost same number of cars going away with red taillights. I was at peace in a world full of angry and hurrying people. It was then when i found out that even the simplest of things can be very beautiful. And sitting was captivating, you know ? the cold wind of the nigh...

The Basement

Three friends Sam, Alicia & Annie were in a basement looking for something, they decide to split up in order to search faster, but they had no idea how this was going to change their lives forever. For this is when out of nowhere one the friends, Annie disappears. As soon as the other two realise it, they start screaming searching for her, as she doesn't reply and there's no other sound they consider that she's been either kidnapped or that she's fainted. But soon the second possibility fades away as they search the entire basement and she's nowhere to be found. then on an elevated platform the other two find a note saying "finally my number 99316452"and after this at the end it was written " - Annie". As Sam wasn't quite familiar with Annie's handwriting and Alicia had studied with her, he Asks Alicia " is it really Annie's note ?". Alicia takes the note and examines it closely as the basement was very dimly lit as if ...

Anger

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Hello everyone, today I'm sharing my views on ANGER.   Well, it is both Good and bad, we're all already familiar with some of it's adverse effects, but still let's have a look.    Why it's Bad : firstly it can deal serious damage to your social image, and your relations. Secondly it affects your brain, your body equally badly, some might feel pain, anxiety, restlessness and tiredness, not to forget sorrow. We all know these things adversely affect our immune system, metabolism and the way we think. As one's anger gets out of control he/she may inflict serious physical damage, in worst cases causing deaths.  These are only few, if you search a bit more on Google, I hope you'll find many more effects of anger.  Why it's Good : Well sometimes, when you're being bullied or people are teasing you for no valid reason, Anger might come in handy, Also when everyone is pressurizing you, it could help you express yourself freely. In some people...

Do you know who you are ? Well, I didn't, but knowing is good :D

Hiya People ! How are things going on ? How's Life ?  If your Answers to the above questions are in any way negative... Then I think you should keep reading, Because I myself wasn't pretty happy with my own existence and I hated myself, I used to think that I am a criminal, because I've hurt someone else's feelings, and I asked for forgiveness almost everyday, But nothing helped. See there's the thing, whatever you have done, if you know you did something wrong, first thing is, to accept that you did it. And doping this, paves way for you to forgive yourself, because at the end that's all that really matters. You can escape from a jail, but you can't escape your own mind, and unless you forgive yourself, it's gonna eat you up from the inside. Okay so back to the point, I saw a video, that said that almost all the people who are unhappy, think that they don't know themselves, they don't know where they belong what they do and who they do it ...

Shout Out TO People For People !

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Be it your daily problems like procrastination or your need of an Schedule to achieve an important goal, Or among the deadliest, Depression, From Yoga, to simple confidence boosting tips, To helping you believe that You are worth it, that you Do have the potential to change the whole world. This Page on Google plus is worth giving a read, It's contributors are me, my friends((who are on G+ of course))  Here's a link to the page ! Alright ! so have a Great Year ahead people !!! Stay blessed, smile more, be happy and be grateful !  2016 might not have been very good, but if we take an oath that we will make this year, this moment the very best in our life We will make 2017 a great year ! Happy holidays people Love you all !