Do you know who you are ? Well, I didn't, but knowing is good :D

Hiya People ! How are things going on ? How's Life ? 

If your Answers to the above questions are in any way negative... Then I think you should keep reading, Because I myself wasn't pretty happy with my own existence and I hated myself, I used to think that I am a criminal, because I've hurt someone else's feelings, and I asked for forgiveness almost everyday, But nothing helped. See there's the thing, whatever you have done, if you know you did something wrong, first thing is, to accept that you did it. And doping this, paves way for you to forgive yourself, because at the end that's all that really matters. You can escape from a jail, but you can't escape your own mind, and unless you forgive yourself, it's gonna eat you up from the inside.

Okay so back to the point, I saw a video, that said that almost all the people who are unhappy, think that they don't know themselves, they don't know where they belong what they do and who they do it for. When I saw this, I verified the info, bot on myself and on my friends surprisingly it was true, a lot of people don't know themselves and that is sometimes the major reason for sadness and negativity. Feel related ? worry not, even if you don't it won't do any harm to know yourself, It'll just help you handle yourself at tough times. 

So how do we know ourselves ? Well, I've suggested people to make list of things that make them happy and the things that make them sad, Their own qualities and the things they're bad at. that is their weak points. See, this is a very important task, and You'll need your good friends or anyone who cares for you to help you fill up this list, Because then you'll know what you think of yourself and what others think of you. This way we cross one hurdle of knowing ourselves. ((if you wanna look at my list, just let me know, I'm on facebook, G+, insta and twitter too)) (( P.S. you might wanna add other emotions like anger, fear, surprise and disgust, but as they are very common and we know what makes us feel these emotions, I haven't included them here, or on my own list))

Once we do this, The second thing is to understand what you do, for example, as of now I am studying, We wanna say, we're working towards creating a better world. It can be anything Like If you're a tailor for example, you can say that I design Beautiful fabrics for the world. You've got to see your work as something bigger than just work. This will fill you with positive energy. Hey, even if you feel like there are a lot of other people doing the same job as you, and they might be better than you, Just think about how you can improve it. This involves some more thinking, you gotta know who you do it for and what they actually want and then how they change because of your presence, your services.   

Oh and by the way, guys these are my own experiences, so If' you'd like to suggest better ways, Then please let me know ! 

In the next post We'll talk about how to summon up our emotions, because feeling the right thing at the right time leads to stability. Hope you found this useful ! And yeah don't worry if you can't get anyone to help you with your List, just feel free talk top me sometime, I'll help you out ! 

Best of luck people ! Do your best !