Observe as much as you can Never stop learning !

There are times when people will leave you behind. And sometimes you won't feel a thing. Letting go is easy at times and is damn hard otherwise. So what should we do ? how to get over it ? what's the best way to deal with it or at least make peace with it so that you can live your daily life. Well Let me tell you one thing, when you were born, you had no one else but your parents. that is one thing that will always be constant. See, even if they are not there, you always have yourself, that inner voice of yours will always guide you. The experience that you've accumulated over the years will always help you move. Keeping that aside, what do if you've been left by someone pretty close to you ? that too recently ? For me, I was damn sad, I cried, talked to my friends. But still somewhere deep inside the pain still resides. It's not as bad as it was when it started. so I can't really say how to get it completely out. But i can definitely help you out with the i...

Every coin has two sides ! Yup there's two sides of Deepawali as well, the festival of lights, in which brightness wins over the dark. First Let's look at the bright side, because Why not ? So as most of us know, We get a lot of holidays, We clean our houses, and almost every other thing we own, from vehicles of desktops and tablets. We praise the god, do our prayers, take bath (yes some people may bath more than once on this occasion! Just kidding). We put on new nice clothes, thanks to the great shopping discounts, both on online and nearby stores. This is also the time to buy expensive things, as they will be available at an exceptionally low rate. This is'n't all, we light up our homes, shops, offices, schools and colleges with candles, or in most modern cases, with electronic lights.  We get to eat sweets ! And for Ambiverts like me, it is a great opportunity to meet up with a lot of people, talk have fun play around, sing and dance. Catch up with old frie...

I've learnt a few things today, ONE : we all are broken hearts, and it's not that we're not hurting, we still are, but we've learnt to hide the pain away, or to forget about it completely. and TWO : that it's not necessary that we live that way. True we all have our problems and hard times. but just forgetting about it or letting it hurt you isn't going to help, instead we should accept it and say or write it out once. Believe me it gives a feeling of salvation, satisfaction and did you know when you explain a problem to someone step by step and how and what exactly is bothering you, most of the times you yourself will be able to find out the solution. Now I know you'll say What nonsense is this ? how is telling someone about it or writing it going to help us accept it ? Here I'll refer to a debugging technique about which I learnt today, it's called " The Rubber Duck debugging " It's a very simple method for a debugger to find a ...

In life you must have come across various situations when your vision has defied you right ? Let's take the simplest case suppose on a road it's written 66, now one person might see it as 99, which is correct in his opinion, the other will argue that it's 66 and not 99. So what to do now ? simple just refer to the surroundings, there will be a clear hint as to which is the correct side.  Let's take another example of water, when you look at it from above, you won't be able to estimate the correct depth. Well at least that can be explained, that light refracts from water, and our eyes can't detect that hence we see a different image.Let's dig in deeper shall we ? When you buy an expensive product, be it anything, your smartphone, computer, vehicle anything. You do as much research about it as possible, you ask your friends, you read reviews, check specifications on various sites. The thing is no matter how much effort you put into knowing the product befo...

All of us are afraid of one thing or the other right ? It may be just dark, or spiders, or even something simple like teddy bears ( I know right ? Weird) But yes we have our fears. See, for me I have stage fright, I know i know who doesn't ? But I have an experience from my childhood where I had to deliver a book review on stage, and I stuttered and forgot what i had to say and it was a total mess. So, yeah I was scared both before going on stage and after coming back. See when hundreds of people are looking up to you to say something and you forget what you had to say. It is damn disappointing. I was made fun of, scolded and what not. But later on I realized that I have to do something about it. So I decided to speak up, it was scary again, but this time, as soon as I had the chance I started speaking, out of the blue, anything that came to my mind. So two  things happened 1) I no longer had to memorize what to say 2) I was free to manipulate my speech according to the...

Time is a valuable thing, we know that don't we ? But often we end up wasting it, sometimes knowingly and other times unknowingly. Either way, time wasted is life wasted. See our lies are too short to do anything but the thing we love. Now let's take a look at how we waste time Knowingly : 1) Playing games on phone or PC or laptop. I'm not saying this to those people who play for like half an hour or an hour, that much is fine. For those who play more than that,  Guys seriously, stop. There's a whole big wide world waiting for you to explore it. Go out hang out with friends, play real games like football, basketball, cricket. Or you could go for swimming, camping, or a simple stroll in the park or your neighborhood. 2) Watching movies, Now again watching movies a good way of refreshment and relaxation, once in a week or a month is fine. But for those who can't sleep without watching a movie, or who have movie marathons you should look at yourself. Stuck ...

Today I realised a few things... Ah no let me rephrase that, I remembered that I had realised a few basic things but had forgotten them. Wanna know ? 1 : Never try to please anyone, no matter how hard you try, if they want they'll find out a flaw and hate you. 2 : it's important to open up to people, but not too much. And of course you have to open up with the right people. 3 : NOT EVERYTHING IN THIS WORLD HAPPENS BECAUSE OF ME. I'M NOT THE CENTRE OF THIS WORLD. 4 : When you're sad there are a few people who may make you feel better. But ultimately it's you who picks yourself up. 5 : Be open to suggestions. 6 : Never follow anyone, learn from them. Don't be a blind follower. Hope this was worth your time. If not, then don't worry whenever you're in a tight spot your mind will know what to do. See you guys have a great time !