You're Not Alone !
Ever felt alone ? like there's really no one who can understand you or stand up for you ? like loneliness is gonna eat you up ?
I can completely understand relate to that, but what we do when we feel like that makes a really big difference. It hurts a lot to know that you've got no one, for whom you mean the world, like literally the whole world. But once we accept it, we can move forth and make a difference, we have the power to choose whether we want to be sad or happy, it's just a simple question : "Will being sad do any good ?". I'm gonna give you my own example, I am not committed to anyone, I am single and almost all the people who are important to me, are already in a relationship, I am not jealous of them, but the thing is, that sometimes, they don't tell me any of their problems, let alone ask for the things I'm going through.Apart from that, I joined classes for preparation of an exam (JEE Mains), and even after spending a month over there, I was unable to be friends with people, felt shy discouraged, that everyone is self-centered and the most striking problem I faced was that people didn't have time for me, and even my old friends ((From school and neighbourhood)) were all busy, so I really felt unwanted, I felt like dying is better than living like this. But with the help of my teachers, It became clear to me, that all of this won't matter because the situation is demands that we all spend the maximum of our times studying. My mentor said
"That nothing is perfect, but if we keep focusing on the negative side of things, we will eventually become negative, because we become what we think, so focus on the positive side. And time is equal for everyone, we all get only 24 hours, it depends on us how we utilise that time."
This turned my life around, it encouraged e to study and stay positive.
I am not saying that you shouldn't be sad. Sadness is a very important feeling, and for Stability, one should feel the right thing at the right moment. Well, that all together is a different topic and everyone has their own opinions on it. And it needs more discussion.
Coming back to the point, you're not alone, there are7,349,472,099 (7.34 billion) people on earth as of 2015, and believe it or not, many of them are like you, thousands of people around te globe feel alone, they spend most of their time alone, they don't open up easily, they feel awkward or scared when talking to a stranger, but believe me, we humans are social animals, and we need each other.
A person cannot do everything on his own, one needs other people, for einstance, let's take the example of a football team, one player alone cannot make the goals and win the entire match, it is a team sport, similarly our life is also just like a team sport, we have to coordinate with people and bring out our best as well as their best too. It may not be easy at the beginning, but as you learn to think from their point of view, things will change. It will get easier.
A person cannot do everything on his own, one needs other people, for einstance, let's take the example of a football team, one player alone cannot make the goals and win the entire match, it is a team sport, similarly our life is also just like a team sport, we have to coordinate with people and bring out our best as well as their best too. It may not be easy at the beginning, but as you learn to think from their point of view, things will change. It will get easier.
So if you feel alone, then I'd suggest you to start now, go out and talk to people, be friendly to someone who had a hard day like you, make people smile, you do not know the power of a friendly helping hand at a time of distress in this world full of people busy in their schedules.
Have the guts to face your problems, because if you don't then no one else will, and trust me, it's not a problem, it's a lesson we need to learn at the moment. But if a problem feels in any way overwhelming ask for help immediately, there's nothing wrong with asking for help.
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