Death of a loved one (PART ONE)

what is the difference between Death, temporarily missing a person, or the situation being the person being so angry that he/she doesn't want to talk to you ?
What if all theses were the people you love ?

For the one who DIED.

what can I say ? we all know we cannot bring back the dead, we cannot breathe life into the dead bodies, even if we loved the person, and wanted to give them our life, we cannot. That's the rule of nature. Life and death is the circle which never ends.  But really can we just forget about the person who died ? even if he/she spent not a lot of time with us, but the moments which we spent together were valuable. At least i can never forget. Death of a person that you love surely does affect you a lot. Be it a friend a Lover, A Teacher, A Parent or A Pet. We humans have a tendency to get attached to the things/thoughts/people we spend our time with. But certainly when a person dies, The mother Father, his whole family bears the pain, suffering. sometimes it even ends families. for an example in a case where a son committed suicide, his mother also die because of the insurmountable suffering, and without anyone left, his father also commits suicide. So is the case with the death of a best friend or a true lover. For me, I have two such people in my life, without whom I cannot live. but apart from them i love my family as well. The point here is The suffering from the death of a person you loved, is just unbearable.To be honest I really don't know what I would do, if the people i love so much DIE.
So, to quench my thirst of knowledge, I asked some of my active friends on Google Plus.
Person One : The Priya
What is Death ? A State Of Peace.
How To cope with the death of a close friend ? Cope up with death of a person, Cry until You get tired of Crying and then show gluttony and sleep for looooooong and talk to me.xD
Person Two : Abdeali Shabbir
What is Death ? The time when you get peace from this idiotic world.
How To cope with the death of a close friend ? The best way is, to accept it i.e. everyone has to go one day, think like that boy. And may you overcome this.
Person Three : ViBhA :D
What is Death ? Bro, have a dictionary with you. (no offence)
How To cope with the death of a close friend ? Cry a river, Build a bridge, get over the bridge ! :)

So, guys its pretty clear that al of us have problems, all of us are complaining about something. but hey we also love the life we have. In our lives, there's always something/someone precious to us. And when that person dies, we become kind of hope less. We might even think of giving up, but hey, every time you think of giving up, think of the reason as to why you kept on holding together until now. Always be hopeful, things do change, sometimes for the worse, but they will change for good as well ! have a great time ahead.


@ more parts of this post, will be uploaded later. To be continued....

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