HOW ABOUT "SORRY" ?

The word sorry is not appropriate. Well, due to our basic manners, moral values and teachings, we know when to say sorry. But what is the use of saying sorry when you don't feel the sorrow. When there is no emotion of regret, saying sorry is like lying to yourself and to the person you are saying sorry to. When we know we did something wrong or inappropriate for example maybe we got careless and hurt someone close to us, due to the change in their behaviour, we notice that it was us who hurt them; We say sorry. Now the question arises, Do we really feel the sorrow ? DO we regret what we DID ?

Case 1 :
let us suppose we do not. Then in that case, we are either showing that we care, or it is that maybe we expect them to do the same, maybe we don't want to be the bad guy. we just act like we care, but actually we do, just not the way we should. The point is, we do what seems is best. so sometimes, we don't feel sorry. It's okay, but it has other effects.

Case 2:
let us suppose that we do. Okay we understand that what we did was wrong, we feel the sorrow. we feel the suffering. So we sorry from the bottom of our hearts. We even cry for the things we did. But truly we can't change the past now can we ?


So, what I am trying to say here, is that When you say sorry, you harm your own mental health. Because we do what is the best. It really doesn't matter much if we feel the sorrow or not. What's important is that we accept our mistakes, Our faults, the Things that we did. Apologising is not bad, but then, sorry doesn't fix anything. We are human beings it is common all of us, make mistakes. You don't need to be depressed or sad about it. Accept it and let it go. Work on your present. because that is what you have. You can only fix your present.

Well, to sum up, I would like to request all of you, to stop saying SORRY, instead accept your faults and rather say that "It won't happen again".


Thank you for reading this. 

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