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HOW ABOUT "SORRY" ?

The word sorry is not appropriate. Well, due to our basic manners, moral values and teachings, we know when to say sorry. But what is the use of saying sorry when you don't feel the sorrow. When there is no emotion of regret, saying sorry is like lying to yourself and to the person you are saying sorry to. When we know we did something wrong or inappropriate for example maybe we got careless and hurt someone close to us, due to the change in their behaviour, we notice that it was us who hurt them; We say sorry. Now the question arises, Do we really feel the sorrow ? DO we regret what we DID ? Case 1 : let us suppose we do not. Then in that case, we are either showing that we care, or it is that maybe we expect them to do the same, maybe we don't want to be the bad guy. we just act like we care, but actually we do, just not the way we should. The point is, we do what seems is best. so sometimes, we don't feel sorry. It's okay, but it has other effects. Case 2: let...